I love to be on my own, do my thing, and mind my own business. Does that sound like one of your favorite sayings? While it is not a bad idea to be alone, God created human to long for fellowship and companionship.
No wonder God said during the process of creation that it’s not good for man to be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him. Helper in this context can also be individual(s) that God has placed in our lives to positively influence us.
“Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken”. Ecclesiastes 4: 9-12.
I have come to realize that God places people in our lives at certain times to help us and He also places us to make a difference in the lives of others as well. But in order to achieve the purpose why God has placed us in each other’s life and bring out the best in each other, we need to be in agreement.
At creation, God had agreement in mind when the Almighty said, “Let US (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit) make mankind in OUR image, after our likeness and let them have complete authority” Gen1:26A – AMPC. The Trinity was involved in the creation of mankind.
Also, when the people were building a tower in the city of Babel (Genesis 11) and they wanted the top to reach heaven. God observed a strong connection between the people and He said in verse 6 “If as one people speaking the same language, they have begun to do this, then nothing will be impossible for them” (NIV) – How wonderful is the power of agreement.
During His ministry on earth, Jesus understood the power of agreement and stated that “if two of you agree here on earth concerning anything you ask, my Father in heaven will do it for you” (Matt 18:19).
Agreement is a powerful weapon in the hands of believers. Being in agreement or praying in agreement with other believers helps us to be selfless and carry each other’s burden. It’s like a symphony orchestra. It creates an immovable force, an army that makes the enemy flee.
Acts 1:14 A says “the disciples all met together and were constantly united in prayer and in one accord”. This led to an outpouring of the Holy Spirit, great harvest of souls, the birth of church, and the spread of the gospel.
There is also such great power in agreement; it has a multiplied effect and produces unimaginable results, but in order to access the power, we need to work it out. To be in agreement with others requires patience, gentleness, and humility.
The enemy is targeting unity in all spheres of life: among believers, between couples, among family members, between co-workers etc. He is using the divide-and-conquer tactic. That’s why some couples wonder why they keep fighting over mundane or flimsy things. Also among believers, it is easy to find offense and not make allowances for each other’s faults. The purpose of the enemy is to prevent us from achieving a common ground spiritually, physically, and financially.
If parents find rivalry among siblings detestable, how do you think God feels regarding disunity among His children?
Towards the end of His ministry on earth, Jesus prayed for all believers “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that ALL (not some) of them may be one; Father, just as You are in me and I am in You” (John 17:20-21).
Jesus understood the importance of unity in the spirit among His children, hence the prayers.
Some believers are struggling or fighting spiritual battles alone. Find another believer who can agree with you and experience results. However, as beautiful as alliance is, it is also important to watch who you agree with. Ensure you are of the same mind with a common goal.
“Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding your selves together with peace, each individual working together to make the whole successful”. Eph 4: 23(AMP).
Friends, in all your relationships, strive for excellence, strive to love one another, strive for unity, it’s the heartbeat of the Father!
Shalom@TheJoyofHisPresence